olympic games 2028...

...here we come!

no but really, Abigail did amazing at her first gymnastics class tonight, and LOVED every second.
Parker is going to be doing it with her and he had (almost) as much fun as she did.
{as evidenced by the pic of him doing a cartwheel...don't miss is below!! ha. sorry love. :) }

We left there both just amazed at how much Abigail acted as though she was just totally in her element. I know that most preschoolers love to do gymnastics...but it was like we saw a fire in her eyes like we haven't ever seen before.
It was so, so fun to see!!

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seriously, she is SO strong!
Her stalky, powerful little body might just be perfect for gymnastics!
We will obviously support whatever our baby decide to do in her life...
but it's exciting to be starting these new adventures with her!!

celebrating 40!! and some baby food making/feeding tips:

Before I say anything else:
HAPPY 40th ANNIVERSARY to my precious parents!!!
yes, FORTY YEARS, people. that's amazing. :)

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My parents are some of the most generous, caring people you will ever know.
They give well, serve well, and love well.
If you know my parents, you know how true that is.
I LOVE YOU, Mom and Dad!!
So thankful for you and for your marriage.
(Wish we were there to celebrate with you!)

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last week I said I was going to be sharing with you about
my new adventures in making baby food...so I thought Id start today!!

My hope is that these posts can be a "guide" for new mamas who need some tips or ideas,
or just some encouragement to take on the new journey of feeding your baby!


I'll start with a few tips/thoughts that have worked well for me:
{and please note that these are what have worked for US, and definitely not what may work best for everyone...y'all know that. But I just had to say it. :) }

1. We waited until 6 months to start solids.
Most Pediatricians recommend starting between 4-6 months.
When she started grabbing for my food, and watching me bring my food to my mouth,
I felt like she was ready.

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2. We chose NOT to start with rice cereal.
Not for any crazy reason, other than that I believe my baby is getting exactly what she needs from my breastmilk and that it was a healthier idea for us to just start with fruits and veggies.
When looking at it, there is just not much nutritional benefit to having the cereal.
Most babies will get all the iron (a big concern for some people) from their formula or breastmilk.

3. It saves money.
I decided to make my own this time around because it is saving a HUGE amount of money.
I will do a post sometime comparing prices...but I have been SHOCKED at the comparison to buying jars! woohoo for money saving! :)

4. We WILL still use jarred food when needed.
I am not one of those moms that won't ever let my child have "commercial" food.
Sometimes the situation (or day) just calls for it...like if you end up going out to eat and don't have anything prepared, or if you are out of town,
or if I will be gone all day and fresh food won't keep.

5. a good blender/food processor is helpful.
We actually didn't have one when Abigail was starting food, but we have an amazing blender now (my very first infomercial purchase and totally worth it, ha!)
If you need one, we highly recommend the "Ninja" Blending system!

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6. get or borrow a few baby cookbooks.
some i recommend:

7. shallow spoons are easier starting out.
Through trial and error, I found that the spoons that are "flatter" are a little easier for the first few weeks or months for your new eater.
The more hollowed out spoons are better for later, but for me, the flatter spoons allow for smaller first bites and for baby to "suck" and get used to the spoon.

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8. feed baby until she signals she is done.
She will probably turn away or push the spoon away.
My recommendation (and my pedi's) is to not push it. Baby may simply not be ready to start solids at all, or may need to get used to the taste and texture.
Remember, this is brand new for them!

9. some good foods to start out with:
mashed bananas, avocado, sweet potatoes, squash, apples.
{and on this point, remember that their poop might start changing a bit so don't be alarmed!}
we started with just two different food a week, twice a day.
(one food for half the week, another food for the other half of the week)
Abigail started with avocado and banana. Bethany started with squash and banana.

10. Continue to breast feed or bottle feed as normal.
starting out, solids are NOT a supplement to the very needed nutrients they are getting from you or from their formula. eventually, you will be able to "drop" quite as many feedings as they get used to having something else in their bellies. But for now, just know that starting solids is just an addition to their diet.

11. stock up on some ice trays.
and also some small tupperware for the food you will use in the next day or two.
ice trays is an awesome way to store and freeze bunches of baby food!
*more on that to come!

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12. Relax and have fun with it!
I know myself, and a lot of other mommies (esp first-timers) can stress about "am I doing this right?" or "I don't want to hurt my child for the long run" etc etc.
But here's my two cents:
YOU are their mother. So just remember that with a little help and guidance from those who have gone before you...you will probably do what's best for your baby because YOU are the one doing it. And there's honestly not much you can screw up here. :)

oh...and take pictures of baby's first bites...
Can't deny loving those sloppy baby mouths!

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what are YOUR baby feeding tips/advice for mamas starting out??

I'll post a few baby food recipes later this week!
Happy Monday!!

{linking up here and here today}

why i (really) hate trash days.

Fridays are trash days in our neighborhood.
I hate trash days.
And not because of the trash.

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I hate trash days because it means yet another week of life has passed.
so, so quickly.
Literally, every Thursday night when I take the trash bins out to the street,
I have a pit in my stomach thinking to myself,
"Didn't I JUST take the trash out?!"

I know that this sounds silly, but it is honestly heart wrenching sometimes.

Because it means that another week
of watching my girls interact,
of watching them learn about life,
of listening to Abigail learn words and songs,
of watching Bethany meet her first year "milestones",
of getting to love on them day after day,
of countless hours of play...
has already gone by.

and I am one week closer to actually missing this stage
of babyhood and toddlerhood,
(Bethany is only 6 months old and I already miss having a teensy newborn)
to missing their innocent perspectives of life as a child,
to them being gone at school all day every day.
One week closer to them finding love apart from their Daddy,
to not having them live in my home,
to them stepping out into the world on their "own".

(and none of those are bad things...i look forward to them all...
I just know I'll miss where I'm at right now.}

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At least once a week, Parker and I ask each other "how can we slow this down?"
"how can we enjoy it more, take it in better?"

And it's not just with the girls, though that definately makes time fly even faster.
But just life.
How is it that we will be married for NINE years next month?
or that I have been out of high school for 11 years?
or that I will be 30 in a few months?
HOW?!

And even in the midst of toddler tantrums, potty training, terrible baby sleep,
not being able to leave the house for long, learning to discipline, sheer exhaustion
and days without a shower...
Time is FLYING. and i KNOW I will miss these days.

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the lyrics to this song get me every time:
"You're Gonna Miss This" by Trace Adkins

you seriously need to watch this. and just a disclaimer: you WILL cry.



{drying my eyes again so i can keep writing. ahh!. ok, I can do this.}

I feel like I don't have any answers really to how to make this okay in my head.
Other than to know that with each coming stage and each coming season of life,
and of our girls' lives...
with those will come NEW joys, NEW milestones, NEW experiences.
and for that...I can't wait.

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I don't want to waste time on being sad about it.
I want to remember that EACH DAY is another one NOT promised, and that there can be fulfillment in each precious, precious day He has given us.
And that if I will just breathe sometimes in the middle of my moments,
I CAN take it in. I CAN relish in it.
And if I realize and respond to what HE is asking of me, and what He is having me do with the days He has given me...it's all okay...and it even seems a little slower.

But is just times like those darn trash days that get me thinking.

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thanks for listening to my heart today.
linking up here

Here's the lyrics to the song above... "You're Gonna Miss This" by Trace Adkins

She was starin' out the window of their SUV
Complainin', sayin', β€œI can't wait to turn eighteen”

She said, β€œI'll make my own money and I'll make my own rules

Momma, put the car in park out there in front of the school”

And she kissed her head, and said, β€œI was just like you”

You're gonna miss this
You're gonna want this back

You're gonna wish these days
Hadn't gone by so fast

These are some good times
So take a good look around

You may not know it now
But you're gonna miss this

Before she knows it she's a brand new bride
In her one bedroom apartment and her daddy stops by
He tells her it's a nice place, she says, β€œIt'll do for now”

Starts talkin' about babies and buyin' a house

Daddy shakes his head and says, β€œBaby, just slow down”

Cuz' you're gonna miss this
You're gonna want this back

You're gonna wish these days

Hadn't gone by so fast

These are some good times
So take a good look around

You may not know it now
But you're gonna miss this

Five years later there's a plumber Workin' on the water heater
Dog's barkin', phone's ringin'
One kid's cryin' and one kid's screamin'
And she keeps apologizin'
He says, β€œThey don't bother me
I've got two babies of my own
One's thirty-six, one's twenty-three”


Huh, it's hard to believe

But you're gonna miss this
You're gonna want this back

You're gonna wish these days
Hadn't gone by so fast
These are some good times
So take a good look around

You may not know it now

But you're gonna miss this

You're gonna miss this Yeah, you're gonna miss this
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First Bites

hope yall had a great 4th!
yesterday we also celebrated Bethany turning 6 months!
SO that means....we started "solids"!!

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She did AWESOME, way better than I remember Abigail doing...
we started with Squash and she was anxious to get that spoon to her mouth!

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This time around, I decided to make my own baby food...something I did not do with Abigail.
With Abigail, I think I was just so overwhelmed with adjusting to motherhood in and of itself, that I didn't feel confident enough to make my own food, and buying it just seemed easier!

But, in an effort to save money, and attempts to stick with healthy eating...
I am on a new adventure!
I spent a good portion of a day this week preparing months worth of food to freeze!
I actually found that I LOVED the process! I don't know why I was so intimidated by it before!!

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I know there are lots of new mamas, and mamas-to-be, that might feel the same way I did,
or just not know how to make their own food, etc.
I know lots of mamas who get anxious about "starting solids", especially if its your first baby!

SO, I decided to start sharing my adventures in baby food making, in hopes that it can encourage some of you or give you new ideas/recipes!
I made a button I will keep over there on my sidebar that you can click on to see the latest
baby food makin posts!

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Hope y'all have a BLESSED day!!


Happy 4th!...and some "Did You Know's?"

So thankful for that flag that flies, representing the freedom we are blessed with here.
Happy 4th of July folks...can't wait to hear what everyone is doing to celebrate!
(and ALSO..Happy 6 months to my sweet B!!)

I am linking up today (the 4th) with a ton of bloggers for the
"Red White and YOU" blog hop!
I'd been wanting to do another one of these posts lately anyways, so I thought today would be perfect to share some random "did you know's?" about myself...

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did you know?
I love watching the Tour De France bike race. It gives me chills to watch.
(I'm watching it as I write)
I secretly dream of being an amazing biker.
I actually AM naturally blonde. :) but hey, a little extra highlighting never hurt, right?
I will celebrate 9 years of marriage next month. yes, 9 years!
I used to be majorly addicted to Coca-Cola.
I went to Baylor University (for my first two years before I got married then finished at UTD)
I have never been to Europe but would LOVE to someday.

did you know?
I am a terribly light sleeper.
I grew up in Dallas, TX but moved to Oklahoma a year ago for hubb's job.
Breastfeeding is one of my favorite parts of being a new mommy.
Neither one of our babies were "planned".
I do not, and wil not, eat any kind of fish or seafood. blech.
I had a miscarriage in between our two girls.
I was the Captain of my high school drill team.
I don't like coffee. I know, I know.

did you know?
I have seen every single season of the Bachelor. yep.
I learned about the supernatural power of the Holy Spirit when I was in high school, and have not been the same since.
I am a trained Post-Partum Doula.
I hate having my nails painted. (I love mani's, but hate the fact it never stays on)
I have to trust Him every day with fear that I will lose my girls.
I cannot imagine doing anything else than being a Mommy.
I love to blog. oh wait, you prob figured that out. :)

there you have it.
{and for more random facts about me, like how I am adopted, and how I have a tattoo,
click here}

YAY for getting to know each other. :) I love this avenue for sharing life.
what a blessing it has been to me.

I'll leave y'all with some pics of what we've been up to the last few days..
lots of summer fun in the backyard!

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Happy 4th y'all.
Hope it's filled with lots of watermelon, hot dogs, sunscreen, fireworks, and fun!

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And, last but NOT least...
Happy 6 months sweet Bethany!!
I cannot believe how time has flown since you graced us with your dainty little self.

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I love you beyond words, Monkey.