introducing . . .

Bethany Len Lowe

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We welcomed our new little princess
Wednesday 1/4/2012
at 1:27 PM

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She weighs 6 lb, 14 oz
and is 19 1/4 inches long.

She has a headful of dark hair,
blue-grey eyes,
and is the spitting image of her beautiful big sister!

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She came quickly, but of course not without a little drama,
(girls, right?!)
but we are praising the Lord that she is here healthy and happy!
{Ill share her birth story soon}

She has already reminded me what it feels like for
my heart to expand.

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Her big sister Abigail took to her immediately,
offering her a hug and a high five when she met her. :)

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and of course a few kisses too.
My heart has officially M.E.L.T.E.D.

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Thanks for the love, prayers and encouragement
as we welcome this new precious life into the world...
She is so blessed by all of you already.

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a blessing in the mail . . .

I got the most precious package in the mail
the other day.
{I even had to sign for it, which made it more special somehow. :) }

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It was filled with the sweetest notes and prayers,
along with a beautiful blessing bracelet.
Blessings and "blessing beads" for my coming labor and delivery.
Words and prayers for it to go smoothly and to be joyful.

and it came from some ladies that I have a very special bond with...

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Shortly after I had Abigail, I joined the "Mommy & Me"group
at the hospital where she was born.
I joined at the encouragement of my birth doula,
who also facilitated this group.

It was seriously one of the best decisions I made as a new momma.

I had to step out of my comfort zone the first time I went.
But something in me KNEW I would need this support
as I adjusted to motherhood.

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{our little ones at the pumpkin patch for their first Halloween - A is the ladybug!}

These other mamas accepted me, loved Abigail, pursued me amazingly...
as we all walked into this new road of having babies together.
All our littles were within months (even weeks) of each other in age,
and all of us were first-time mommies.

We spent countless hours talking
breast milk, bottle issues, sleeping problems, relationships,
faith, adjustment to staying at home...you name it.

And our babies made their very first friends,
they will always hold a special place in Abigail's heart and in mine.

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I was FLOORED when I opened this envelope full of notes from my friends.
I don't even live in the same state as them anymore.
We've done this for a few other mommies in the group,
as they have had baby their number 2.
But i never expected it since I moved away.

I couldn't even read the notes at first because I was crying.
amazed at the honor and love that filled this package.

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They will be words that will encourage me and uplift me
during my upcoming labor,
as I pursue the goals and desires
of how we feel the Lord has asked us to do it.
And I will wear my blessing bracelet to remind me
as I labor.

This sweet sisterhood is standing with me,
and that means the world to me.
Thanks girls - you know who you are.

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now for the waiting . . .
I'm due in 1 day,
I'll keep you posted!


loving my friends, loving my support system,
loving this baby I'm about to meet . . .
and linking up here for things I love:

slippers, scripture, and diapers for mama...

39 weeks today.
and OH so ready to meet our new little punkin!
{as of today's appt, I am 2 cm dilated and 70% effaced...
so just waiting for labor to start now!}

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I packed this past week for the hospital,
to be ready when the time comes!
When it comes to things like this, my planning mind has fun,
making lists (and checking them twice. No, really!)

I'm sure I've overpacked, I do no matter where I'm going.
But I'm also going off of what I had/wished I'd had last time I delivered.
What did you take with you when
you delivered your babies?
Anything you wished you'd had there?

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I have a bag packed for me, and one for new baby girl.
I also packed a small bag just for Abigail just in case we have to take her with us to the hospital while we wait for our parents to make their 3 hour drive here.
(though Im hoping I will have enough "notice" that I can labor at home
for those three hours and not have to worry about taking her)

some essentials in my bag:
my new fluffy pink robe, and slippers,
nursing cover (made by my dear friend Jessi) to use if guests stop by.
a few tank tops that are easy to nurse in, cozy pants,
my pillow that I can't sleep without, a few toiletries.

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a few more intimate items I think every new mama
should think about taking with her:
(I say this as a mama and as a trained Postpartum Doula)
Some breastfeeding "comfort aids"
(for me, these hydrogel pads were very soothing for those first few days/weeks)....

AND, dare I say it?
Diapers. yes, that's right. Diapers for YOU.
I personally think this is one of the best kept secrets for new delivering mamas.
Most hospitals give you huge terribly uncomfortable pads to wear in your underwear for the first few days, as most women have bleeding after they have delivered.
...But the Diapers are MUCH more comfortable and easy to manage.
Just take it from me, it was worth it.

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I also made sure it was okay in L&D that we bring our stereo to play our iPod on.
We made a playlist for Abigail's delivery,
and I'm almost done making one for this time around.
Worship music is very calming for me.
I'll never forget the worship songs helping me through last time,
even as I was pushing with Abigail, I remember what song was playing when she was born.

a few other things I've made notes to not forget to take:
camera (and charger!) - for obvious reasons!!
phone (and charger!) - to let everyone know she's here!
computer (and charger!) - to share pictures with you, if time and energy allow!

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the carseat is already installed, ready for a little bitty.
(though today Abigail leaned over and said "MY carseat"...
hmm i see where this may be headed, yikes.)

I wrote out some scripture that I can look at,
or that Parker can read to me during the labor.
My desire is to draw all my strength from HIM and
I know I will need all the reminders I can get in the midst of pain!

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I'm so thankful to have a God who is SO trustworthy
that He will do what He says He will do,
and I believe He has told me that
He will give me the strength and perseverance
to make it through this...with MUCH JOY at the end!

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in Baby Girl's bag,
I packed a swaddle blanket (the velcro Summer brand was my FAV with Abigail!),
a few socks, a hat, a couple of onsies,
and of course her precious "going-home-outfit"!

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Something new and different I have ready this time:
Big Sister and Little Sister gifts!
I know A is only 2, so she doesn't totally grasp what
will be happening, but she does understand a little bit!

So we got her a gift to GIVE to her new baby sister,
so she feels like she has participated in welcoming her.
(she helped me pick out a cozy blanket!)
And we got her a Big Sister gift FROM the new baby...
a stuffed giraffe she LOVED at the store, and I went back and bought it later.
(it will be worth the battle of prying it out of her hands when she saw it for the first time). :)

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Now that I'm all packed, we are just ready and waiting for
this new little bundle!
I've been using my "birthing" (excercise) ball to help rock this baby into readiness,
and drinking my Rasberry Leaf Tea and using Primrose Oil!

We truly believe she will come when God is ready for her to come...
but I'm also just doing some natural things to help get things started!

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"Hello sissy! Come out and play!"
We are so ready to meet you, little one...

Today we got to hear baby's heartbeat and Abigail came with us to the appt.
So all day she's been saying "baby heart beep!"
SO so cute!!!!

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Do YOU have any recommendations
of things to pack when you have a baby?
Anything you wish you'd had?
Any worship songs you labored to or think I should add to my playlist?
I'd love to hear!
(and I think it'd be beneficial to first time mamas to hear your tips!)

linking up and sharing hearts here

in His Strength

I cannot believe how close I am to meeting my next little princess!
Just under 3 weeks now till she's due...

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God has been reminding me that I cannot do ANYthing without HIS strength.
I need it so badly.
And I know I will need it even more with two little ones.

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I've been really open lately concerning my anxiety of adjusting to life
with a newborn and a toddler.
But thankfully, in the last week or so,
the Lord is giving me such JOY
as I look forward to this new arrival.

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When we were touring L&D at the hospital the other day,
we heard the brand new cries of a little one
who had literally just been born minutes before.
I cried.
And then the Lord reminded me what a blessing I am about to experience again.

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That's what I needed.
I needed to hear those little cries, to remind me that
all my anxieties will go away
when I hold this new little one in my arms.

Even in the midst of heightening toddler fits,
being so physically uncomfortable,
Christmas, Abigail's birthday planning,
being so totally hormonal that I've been losing it almost daily
(my sweet husband is holding me together)...
HE GIVES ME STRENGTH.

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{pictures by the lovely Kelly Madole.}

And just like the verse for my blog (Hebrews 12:1) says...
I am looking towards the JOY He has set before me.

"I can do ALL things through HIM who strengthens me."
Philippians 4:13


linking with Casey today - lots of lovely hearts being shared.