Social Media Goodbye

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Happy Fall, and also, goodbye friends! 🍁 Ready for all the Fall changes, which leads me to share this big news…

Maybe it’s that my 40th is fast approaching and things that used to be important just aren’t anymore, maybe it’s that my kids are growing fast, or that this has been a season with lots of transition.

Maybe it’s that the last few years have put a lot of things - including what’s shared online - into perspective.

It’s also that I feel the intensity of the spiritual battle around us, and I want to lean in and be more present with Jesus than ever…

or maybe it’s that my heart just isn’t totally in it anymore.

…but I am signing off and saying goodbye to social media. 💕

Yep, Ive been known to take a break every now and then. And I know people get made fun of for announcing said breaks.

But for the sweet part of this community I have built here for the last decade…I wanted y’all to know.

Because this is goodbye from here. 😘

When I started blogging years ago, it was so different.

Being online was different, the community was different, my desire to share so openly was different, my family and time to spend online was different!

So it’s come time.

I’m making this big change (along with my hair color apparently 💆🏼‍♀️💆🏻‍♀️)…and putting these things away, for I don’t know how long. Possibly and most likely for good. 💕

A few things:

I still have my oils business and may continue to share @simpleoilylife and also @oklahomaessentialoils . 🌿 (and will still use my FB groups for my team)

I will blog every now and then, you can give your email here to stay connected! 💕

I will also share tips and sales and such, on my business website: www.simpleoilylife.com ✨

💕

Y’all are special and I’m grateful for what this space has meant to me over the years, and for the connection God has provided here!! Ill miss you. 🥹

Peace…and big, big blessings over each of you!!! 🙏🏻

ADOPTION DAY

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39 years ago today - after 6 weeks in foster care - I went home with the most amazing parents who said yes to adoption…something not as popular back in the 80’s. They were so brave! ❤️

I don’t think I’ve ever talked more about adoption as I have in this last year, bc of a post I shared last summer that went viral.

(It’s been such an unexpected blessing, because I know God used my story as a tool to help others…and for that I am so honored.)

As I’ve had more questions than ever before, I thought today - my Adoption Day, would be a perfect day to share more! ❤️

1. When did I find out I was adopted? I’ve just always known! My parents made it so normal that I don’t even remember being told! It was just a part of my life from the beginning. I applaud them for that.

2. No, I didn’t feel any “different” being adopted. I was actually very proud of that part of my story even at a young age. I remember even sharing it in class, when we would have to write about something that made us unique. I attribute that to my parents normalizing it for me.

3. I was in foster care because the adoption agency could not find my birth father to sign the papers. (Apparently his parents weren’t happy about things and had moved away.) BUT the cool thing is, is that I actually kept in touch with my foster parents for many years! We would go to a Christmas party at the adoption agency every year and see them there. ❤️

4. It was a closed adoption. (Typical in the 80’s). My dad got my records unsealed when I was in high school for various reasons. He gave them all to me to look at whenever I was ready to, which wasn’t til about 10 years later.

5. I met my birth mother and family about 13 years ago and it’s been a precious gift! That’s a whole other post. 💕

I get talked to often by people who have adopted or are fostering. Telling me that they hope their situation is beautiful like mine has been. It can be. You did the hard part by saying yes! God will lead you.

Pray over them. Normalize their uniqueness as an adopted child. Let them know they were CHOSEN.

That’s what my parents did so well. And that’s why this day in my life has always been so special. ❤️

BLACK FRIDAY with YOUNG LIVING

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It’s already Black Friday over here in Young Living world…. and it’s legit the best sale we have had ever!!

30% off tons of oils
25% off diffuser and kit collections
20% off some amazing roll-ons
BOGO Shampoo/Conditioner
25% off CBD
20% off select supplements

I MAY have just made the biggest purchase I’ve ever made. The deals are just too good to pass up!!

I stocked up on some basics like Lavender, Peppermint, Lemon, Stress Away, and Vanilla … but also got myself our new gorgeous CAR DIFFUSER , and some kits of emotional and sleep-specific oils that I’ve always wanted to try!!

Sale is live now through next Sunday, while supplies last!! So go order now!!
https://www.youngliving.com/us/en/company/black-friday


AND if you’d like me to make you a personalized custom cart with sale oils, let me know and I’ll send you a link!

ORDER HERE: https://www.myyl.com/simpleoilylife

Or email me for help!

simpleoilylife@gmail.com

Being who I am.

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I am determined to live more “me” lately, to be more of who I am made to be.

I challenge myself to be better in the things that need to change. I seek more than just the average and the familiar. I don’t want to be the same as everyone else. I don’t want to be the same as I was last year, last month, yesterday.

I don’t get things right most of the time. I pray and cry. I yell and cuss. I worship and dance. I feel a lot of feels, but I use my head too.

I have an enneagram number, but it doesn’t define me. I have a color test answer, but it’s not all of who I am. I have certain letters on a personality test, but it’s not all I do.

I can roar like a mama bear. I can be gentle and subdued. I can be loud. I can keep my mouth shut and listen. I can be anxious, sad, joyful, excited, scared, warrior-mode…and I don’t want to shy away from any of it. Because it’s who I am.

I have beliefs others don’t have. I have struggles others don’t have. I have dreams and goals and visions others don’t have. I have testimonies others don’t have. I have a purpose others don’t have. (So do you, friend.)

I am a woman after the heart of Jesus, and a woman who cherishes freedom (in so many regards), and a woman who lives my life thankful that mercies are new every single morning.

If you have let this last year or two redefine you (not in a good way), cause you to feel a need to conform, or make you forget who you are and what you have to offer, what you believe, who you are in your core…take a minute to stop and remember.

Write it out. Don’t be shy with yourself. Your heart deserves to remember who you are…and then stand in awe of God’s perfect creation of YOU, unapologetically.